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Post by Avegodro on Mar 25, 2011 15:07:07 GMT -5
Okay I know, I'm not a liked guy around these parts and I'm as solid as balsa wood most of the time. I'm not giving any details but lets just say everything has gone to hades today. All I'm asking for is some words of encouragement, cause right now I'm running on fumes.
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Post by Raijin on Mar 25, 2011 23:05:30 GMT -5
This "not a liked guy" thing is all in your head. Who here has given any indication at all they don't like you? We're all kinda rolling our eyes at the constant dramatics, but that doesn't mean we have anything against you.
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Post by Avegodro on Mar 25, 2011 23:27:24 GMT -5
I figured I had become sort of 'villan' with my actions these past couple of months. But I guess you people have very different views than me.
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Post by Raijin on Mar 25, 2011 23:48:42 GMT -5
What actions? Seriously, have I missed something here?
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Post by Qwertman on Mar 25, 2011 23:51:14 GMT -5
Find a therapist. Try a couple out and see which one makes you happy. They're usually nice people that live near your community and have a calm space set aside for their clients whom they treat as friends. If you find it too hard to bring yourself to do this, let a friend or family member know you are considering it and they will help you. There are always those anonymous 1-800 numbers to help get you back on your feet as well.
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Post by HF on Mar 26, 2011 6:18:56 GMT -5
I figured I had become sort of 'villan' with my actions these past couple of months. If by that you mean 'evasive' and 'insecure', then yes. Otherwise, I see no hostile intent from you, nor has anything that you have been primarily responsible for that makes me wish specific harm dealt towards you. So you've got me confused here.
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Post by Avegodro on Mar 26, 2011 21:12:39 GMT -5
Like I said, me and the rest of you think very differently on these matters.
Therapy sounds quaint but sadly I don't have the time anymore and everyone else had their own problems.
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Post by Qwertman on Mar 26, 2011 22:51:42 GMT -5
I went through therapy when my parents got divorced. I didn't think I needed it, but I got something out of it and it was a good experience. You DO have time for it. It just takes an hour a week. You're not going to find help for problems like this on a forum full of people who aren't trained therapists. You'll only find advice that you could get from anybody, and a means to vent your insecurities in a way that may even strengthen them.
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Post by Avegodro on Mar 27, 2011 0:39:47 GMT -5
No I'm good, I was just unstable due to all the stress from these past couple of months. I've gotten over that, so I don't need help right now.
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Post by WhiteWindow on Mar 30, 2011 1:31:35 GMT -5
Hey mister advice man, I got one for you.
The girl I spent 2+ years talking to everyday decided we should never talk again, three hours before my first day at my 4pm-1am job. In a foolish decision I called my parents becasue I was so upset that I A) tore up my dvd games shelf, and was B) Trying to pick a fight with the wall.
They were more concern with me going to work, and when I started crying outside the car they both screamed at me, my dad said I had no balls and that he barely wanted to live with me, and my mother was more mad that she had to drive me to work becasue I really couldn't drive at that point.
So I just got off work... what the fuck am I suppose to do now?
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Post by Avegodro on Mar 30, 2011 10:42:16 GMT -5
I'll level with you whitewindow I'm not an advice man, this thread is meant for everyone to help out. But nevermind that right now lets talk your problem out.
Did she give any reasoning as to why you two shouldn't talk anymore?
As for calling your parents I don't think that would be a foolish move but from what happened I can see where your coming from on that.
I'm only 22 for crying out loud and I know for a fact they handled the situation incorrectly. If my kid had this happen I would calm them down, drive them to work myself and made sure they we're fine before even letting them out of the car. But thats me.
Well something obviously happened between you two, my advice would be to get her to tell you whats wrong. Either she is upset over something else or its you two.
I really hope this helps.
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Post by Dashe on Apr 1, 2011 17:41:17 GMT -5
White, I'm sorry to hear that. Nothing sucks the way suddenly losing a good friend for what seems like no reason at all. (You were just friends, right? Maybe there was some kind of misunderstanding on either of your parts?)
I'd even wager that being dumped by a friend is worse than being dumped by a significant other, because at least with significant others, it's always in the back of your mind. Hardly anyone expects to be dumped by just a regular friend. They're the ones who roll with you through stuff like breakups, so what do you do when your friend decides to call it quits?
I don't think I can offer you real advice, but you have my condolences, and if you ever find out what to do when friendships randomly go sour, make sure and publicize it.
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Post by WhiteWindow on Apr 3, 2011 10:53:18 GMT -5
Thanks Av, and Dashe, I'm feeling a lot better and everything is resolving itself. ^^;
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Post by Avegodro on Apr 3, 2011 14:13:09 GMT -5
Thanks Av, and Dashe, I'm feeling a lot better and everything is resolving itself. ^^; That is great news whitewindow, I'm glad things worked out for you two.
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